She loves to work. A lot.
Yes, she does. Despite her doctor’s advice to take some rests, she always thinks of her deadlines and still goes to work. She’s a very good employee, high performer. I see it from the start, she loves her work.
It has been several times now that she was advised to take a 7-day bed rest, but the longest rest she had taken so far was 2 days. Then back to work again. Sometimes I also ask her to rest, especially when she complains of something, oftentimes muscle pain. But I see that she only rests when she really can’t work. Not. She’ll not go to the office but she’ll still work from home.
I know she is well, that’s why I just let her not rest but it doesn’t mean I don’t care. And I know that God watches over her and takes care of the little angel inside her womb. But sometimes I wonder. Am I being unconcerned of my wife and my baby? Am I doing the right thing?
After all, there’s nothing I can say or do but thank God for keeping them safe all the time.
But in the condition she is in now, it is best to listen to the doctor–God gave us doctors to take care of us. On the other hand, God gave us the ability to discern. Weigh options, so that in the end, you and your wife are responsible for your decisions.
i had 7 wonderful blessings, and all the time during my pegnancies were tripartite affairs–me and my husband on one hand, my doctor on the other, and the good Lord watching over us.
it’s just a matter of time, might as well take precautions.
wise words from the expert, SexyMom. ^_^
Your wife sure is a woman of strength who knows what to do and when to get things done. I just hope she wont stress herself too much though. Congratulations on your little angel!
Thanks, SexyMom.
@eetsie, the problem is that she always get stressed too much. The only thing in mind is to tell her to rest but she always rejects.
hi aldrin..i am not an expert in relationships but part of me says you are doing something right. you have been trusting her with the decisions that she makes even if it crushes you because you are so worried about her. you are right too because even if you know you can take control of things, you amaze me in your ability to trust in God as well.
i don’t know what to do in your situation but something is just clear..you really love her and that’s all she needs to know and to feel. I am glad you found each other.
For leah:), if you are reading this..please rest hehehe:)